Confrontation is a part of life, and as
much as we would like to avoid it, there are certain times when we really should
just get on and deal with it. Avoiding confrontation will often make any
situation worse than it needs to be, as people quite often start to feel
awkward and the lack of communication will create a block between individuals.
When I say confrontation, I don’t mean
fighting and arguing with people, in fact confrontation and dealing with issues
is the best way to avoid arguments and fights with the people we care about. It’s
all about communication, and although for many people confrontation creates
fear in many people, there are times when we need to learn to get rid of that
fear and deal with situations head on.
- Do you have an issue with a co-worker that you know you should really deal with?
- Is there a problem involving a friend that is making your relationship difficult?
- Do you think that you can’t handle confrontation?
- Do you need to speak to a family member about a delicate subject?
If you are not experiencing any of these
situations right now, it is my guess that you either have experienced them or
you are very likely to at some point in the future.
So how do you diminish the fear and learn
to cope with confrontation, and not just cope with it, but get to the point
where you can do it without thinking? Wouldn’t it be amazing if you could deal
with any situation that arises in your life without the stress and fear you
currently have?
“The only thing we have to hear is fear itself” –
Franklin D Roosevelt
Well you can…. How? With affirmations of
course! Affirmations will help you to deal with confrontation in a constructive
manner, and will teach you that you no longer need to always put your needs
second to everyone else’s.
Here are some affirmations to get you
started…
- I am strong willed
- I am level headed and relaxed
- I am composed and articulate
- I am facing my fears
- I do what I need to do, to be happy
- Nothing worries me
- I can face anything that is bothering me
With the help of these affirmation’s you
will retrain your mind into thinking completely differently about
confrontation, you will become more confident and slowly get rid of the fear
that surrounds these situations.
So start using these affirmations today,
and see how you feel about the confrontational situation you are avoiding in a
few days, we guarantee that you will feel a lot better and may even be ready to
deal with it head on!
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Repeat after me: “I’m financially free, dollars want me!”
Matthew E Alleyne
Founder – The Prosperity Community
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