Use Positive Thoughts to Counteract Negative People

Unfortunately we all come across a certain amount of negativity in our lives, and if we are truly positive people this is quite annoying as it can interfere with our peace and contentment. I usually try to avoid negative people as it affects the way I feel and never in a good way. I am a naturally positive person, and anyone that meets me, comments about how happy I look and how friendly I am.

It has not always been like this for me, it took a lot of hard work and determination for me to get to this point of peace and tranquillity. I too was once an extremely negative person, and thought that life was just supposed to be a white knuckle ride, that we all just have to get through!  This attitude was partly down to my upbringing and partly down to the life choices I had made, which were not good ones and left me feeling empty and down, leading to complete negativity.

Having worked so hard to get to the place I am in now, I find it very irritating when someone wants to bring unrest into my life. Unfortunately I am somewhat of an empath, so I am very good at feeling what those who are closest to me feel, and I have to recognise this before it goes too far and I end up in the same negative place that they are in!  

For me it’s all about awareness, being aware of my feelings and thoughts at all times and also being aware of what other people are doing around me is key to me keeping my serenity. Without my serenity my life is not very enjoyable let me tell you! I had an incident recently that has had a big effect on my feelings and peace, and I still do not feel as peaceful as I would have done before this incident, however I also know that as long as I am aware I can change the way I feel back to positive!

You may be wondering ….. How do you change it once you are aware?

Simple…. Positive thinking and affirmations! When something breaks your peace and serenity, it is important to go back to basics! You will be able to turn everything back around if you just revert to all you learned in the first place!

Here at the Prosperity Community, you will learn not only how to change your thoughts to positive, but also how to use the tools you will get from the program and use them for any situation that may occur in your life.

The Prosperity Community has taught me how to make the best use of affirmations, how to change my thinking, and how to get on the path to prosperity, in every sense of the word!

So come and take a look at the website and sign up today to start your journey to peace, serenity and prosperity!

See you soon!

Sue Turner – Assistant

The Prosperity Community

Positive Think Your Way Out Of Work Stress

We have all been there, a tough day turns into a tough week and before you know it you are feeling s certain amount of stress and strain that doesn’t seem to be lifting anymore. You feel like you are carrying it with you wherever you go, and that there is a constant black cloud hanging over your head.

Even times out with friends, walking or doing the things you usually enjoy and are usually grateful for have stopped mattering to you, and in fact do not have any impact on your moods anymore!

Are you worried that you are never going to be happy again? Concerned that you will need to change careers to get out of this mind-set?

Worry not! There is no need for such drastic action, in fact work stress is not the catalyst anymore, although it may have been the trigger for the way that you are feeling right now, it was just that… the trigger.

When something makes us feel bad and we keep dwelling on it instead of fixing it, our thinking gets confused and changes to negative. It is very easy to end up feeling this way by reverting back to old thinking, as we all know, thoughts become things, so you are essentially creating your own depressing reality by allowing yourself to keep on this destructive though path.

Remember “This too shall pass” But not without a little bit of work from you! You need to change your thoughts! Once you have altered your thinking back to positive, you will soon see that life will become lighter and easier again, and you will lose that black cloud you have!

You can use 3 simple steps to start to change your thinking:

Awareness – Becoming aware of your thoughts is key to changing them, try catching your first thought and change it into a positive one

Rational Thinking – Analyse your thoughts and decide whether they are rational or not, if they are not then you need to get rid of them, only keep rational thoughts that serve you at the time in your head. Don’t waste time on pointless thoughts!

Keep it simple – Don’t over think your thoughts, or over analyse the reasons you are having them, this will just confuse you and make life even more difficult.

Just know that you are the keeper if your thoughts, you and you alone have the power to change the way you think, the way you feel and the path your life takes!

So if you have had a particularly stressful week, try and take time to relax this weekend and gently try to change your thinking so that you can start to feel better and look forward to a whole new week next week!

Good luck!

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Matthew E Alleyne

Founder – The Prosperity Community

Affirmations for Times of Grief

We all know the feeling of sadness and grief only too well, however even though many of us have experienced these feelings more than once before in our lives, doesn’t meant that it makes it any easier.

Greif can come in many forms, I am not just referring to the death of a loved one, but also the heartbreak at the end of a relationship, the loss of a friend, who has gone away to another country or who you have simply lost contact with.

Grief is a very strong emotion and it can take over our minds and hearts if we let it, allowing all those negative thoughts to come back in and threaten everything we have learned about positivity and life.

I know that if you are in the midst of a sad time and are grieving something or someone, this is the last thing you want to read about, but it is probably the most important thing you will learn at this time.

We all know that our thoughts will manifest, and this manifestation will be either positive or negative, depending on what your prominent thoughts are. It is hard to find positivity within when you are going through such a sad time, but trying to find positive things out of negative situations will help you to cope and get through this time in your life.

It is actually healing to replace a negative thought with a positive one, and a good way to do this is to use affirmations. This is easy because you already have your affirmation ready written for you to recite when you feel the negative thoughts creep in.

Here are some examples of affirmations you may want to use to help you through your journey of grief or sadness.

• I am letting go of my sadness, but holding onto my love for (loved ones name)
• I trust my higher power to guide me through this time, and I now take the first step
• I choose love, I choose to heal
• Acceptance is key to my happiness, I must accept what is
• I am grateful for every day I am living
• I am grateful for the times I spent with (loved ones name)
• It’s ok to heal my grief today
• I deserve to take some time for myself right now

You may choose to use some of the affirmations above or you may be inspired to write your own personal ones.

Whatever you choose to do, remember to use them regularly, and especially as soon as you feel negative thoughts creeping into your mind. We guarantee that these or any positive affirmations will help you to change the way you think and feel and get you on the road to future happiness.

Have you ever used affirmations in this way? Did it work for you?

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Matthew E Alleyne

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What Are Your Personal Goals?

When was the last time you set yourself personal goals? I don’t mean the goals that are generally set for you in work, I mean actual personal goals that will affect your life and happiness?

Do you have goals for the next 12 months, 3 months, or are you someone who has a 5 or 10 year plan?

Personal goals are important for us all, as they give us something to work towards in life, something to strive and aim for, and when we achieve them, we feel happy and our lives are improved a little more each time.

Without setting goals, life can feel purposeless, and if you feel like you need direction, setting goals will help you to feel like you have a direction in life.

So do you have any goals in your mind that you may one day want to achieve? Maybe it’s time that you start writing them down and deciding when and how you will achieve what you want to in life.

So this weekend, why not take some time to put pen to paper and set out your own personal goals, when you what to achieve them by, and how you will get there!

You will be amazed at how motivated you will feel when you have written your intentions down on paper, so give it a go and let us know how you do on our Facebook Page! Why not share your goals with us too!

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Matthew E Alleyne

Founder – The Prosperity Community

How do You Develop Trust in Yourself?

Learning to trust ourselves really isn’t an easy task, in fact it can be one of the hardest things we have to learn in life. Think about it, how many people do you know that are truly in touch with themselves and able to trust their instincts, bodies and thoughts?

It all seems a bit silly really, like we have not evolved but in fact taken several hundred steps back since prehistoric times, when all man had were their instincts to help them to live and survive on a daily basis!

Although with the evolution of relationships, family, and networks of friends and colleagues, not to mention the invention of technology and therapy, we are no longer very sure about ourselves. We certainly do not ever consider acting on instinct alone, and if we do we tend to spend time either regretting it or worrying if it was the right thing to do!

Nevertheless, even though we seem to be getting along ok without the element of self-trust our ancestors had, it is vital to our wellbeing, mental state and lives. I know that we are not going around hunting for our food or protecting our young from attacking predators anymore, but this doesn’t mean that self-trust doesn’t have a place in the modern world.

In fact self-belief and trust is even more important to us than ever before, as not only does it make us feel better, and more settled, it also helps us to stop relying on outside sources for validation on aspects of our life that we need to be the keepers of.

So how do you begin to develop a sense of trust in yourself?

Listen to your body – Listen to what your mind and body are saying, do you have a peaceful feeling about a decision or situation? Or do you feel a little sick or have a lump in your tummy? Obviously you know which one is the best for you?

Turn the negative into a positive – Every time you have a negative thought about a situation, try and turn it into a positive, if there isn’t one… maybe it’s not the best thing for you?

Ask yourself – When you hear that loud voice of Ego starting to talk to you, stop and ask yourself if this is really the way you feel, the more you can quiet the ego the more sure you will be of yourself.

Stop and be in the moment – It is very important to learn to be in the moment, to stop all those thoughts that race through our heads every minute of every day and just concentrate on the issue at hand.

Use Affirmations – Affirmations will help you to re-train your mind and thinking so that you are able to begin gaining trust in yourself.

The more we trust in ourselves the more we will see our lives improve and the happier we will be. Trusting in ourselves will allow us to be confident in all we do, and be a success in everything we put our minds to.

If you feel like you are lacking in trust for yourself, just start practicing these steps above on a daily basis, and you will be amazed at the results.

Please be aware that change will not happen overnight, but instead gradually over a period of time, and it may be so subtle that you don’t even notice!

So good luck and let us know your thoughts on our Facebook Page!

Why do We Make Bad Decisions? How do We Stop?

We are often faced with situations that require us to make decisions, because this is just how life is, how we manage to make these decision is another matter. Do you struggle to make decisions and choices? Do you instantly regret your decision or choice as soon as you have made it?

You are not alone, there are many people in this position, most of whom do not know why they keep making bad choices and the wrong decisions!

This problem with decision making comes from a behaviour cycle that can actually be broken quite easily…. Don’t believe me?

Well bad decisions essentially come from negativity, and negativity breeds when we are unhappy, have lost faith in ourselves and worry a lot because we are obsessing over things too much. Stress is caused by worry and when we are stressed we are never going to know what the right decision is that we have to make.

Once you are caught in this vicious cycle of negativity, it can seem almost impossible to break, however if you have already recognised it, you are half way there!

Negative thoughts can take over your mind, and will cause you to make negative decisions, and the more negative and bad decisions you make, the more negativity you will attract…. Remember the law of attraction? It really is at work all the time!

So how do you break the cycle?

Here at The Prosperity Community, we believe that the easiest way to break the cycle of this negative thinking is to begin using affirmations. When you are repeating affirmations you are automatically re-programming your brain to think in a more positive manner, whether you know it or not, they make it much more simple to start being more positive because you aren’t even realising that you are changing your thinking.

Affirmations are small sentences, which need to be repeated several times every day so that your mind can get used to thinking in a different way.

When you begin your journey with us, you will be given several affirmations that will help you to change your thinking, your life and your future, all you need to do is believe in them!

It is important to choose your affirmations carefully, so that you can attract what really wants you in life, and begin to enjoy a stress free, worry free life full of positivity and good things!

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Matthew E Alleyne

Founder – The Prosperity Community

Positive Affirmations for a Positive Weekend!

Happy Friday everyone! Or is it?

Are you lacking that Friday feeling? Do you feel a bit down and negative? Why? Is it that you have had a bad week? Got nothing planned for the weekend?

Weekends are the perfect time to really think about your affirmations and how they will make you feel better, after all most of us have more time on our hands at the weekend.

If you have been saying your affirmations but they don’t seem to be doing anything for you, maybe you need to review your wording, or maybe you need to think about how you are saying them.

Affirmations are futile when you are not really believing them, feeling them and are just saying them and going straight back to your old negative thinking. If you find that this is what you have been doing this week, it’s no wonder you are feeling out of sorts!

So now this weekend it’s time to go back to basics! And in order to start you feeling positive and able to write your affirmations again, or at least start believing in the ones you already use, here are several that you can concentrate on to get you back on track this weekend.

“I am in control of my own thinking.”

“My mind is constantly in tune with the positive.”

“I always choose the thoughts that are most positive and serve me best.”

Now when you are saying these, really believe, concentrate on them and you are guaranteed to start feel better in no time at all!

There’s no time to waste! Start saying these affirmations now! And let us know how you feel on Monday morning after the weekend has passed!

Remember relax, and believe and you will feel better!

Good luck!

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Matthew E Alleyne

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